EXTREMES
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EXTREMES

A major challenge in the way we deal with each other is facing extremes. Extremes in Judginglabellingobjectingbelieving.  These extremes put more distance between us and they increase the psychological barriers we have amongst ourselves. Why did we go there? And where are we positioned from the compromise value? Can you imagine what the extremes do in a relationship between a husband and a wife, a mother and daughter, a father and son? The extremes come from our own deep believe that the reality is what we see, and that any other reality coming to us from the surroundings are not true and are subject to refusing and neglecting from our side. This applies to the extent that we are living inside the reality box of our own. Anyone trying to impose has two options: 1. To get inside my box of reality and be a desired close friend , or 2. To have a different reality box of his own and at that point we will be emotionally and logically apart. The solution is clear, we have to appreciate and acknowledge diversity. God created us in different locations, having different experiences, living different standards in order to complete each other. So, you and I have to realize that I alone have part and only part of the reality, and the rest of the reality is out there with someone else. It is up to me to go and grab it to expand my knowledge and experience. Otherwise, in the extreme realm: challenging, debating, objecting, judging and labeling others in all sorts of way. The choice is yours, either go extreme and isolate yourself or compromise and communicate effectively.